Death is not the only way out

The Straits Times, 5 July 2006

IT is truly devastating to hear of such news that there is increasing number of young suicides across the years. I find it disappointing that although the suicide numbers are highest among other deaths, it is the most under reported in the media. It is surprising to know that it is deliberate that the media only reports extensively death news that involves well known people or when some unusual aspect comes to light. I believe the media has a lot of responsibility to hold for suicide cases. Movie serials that show explicitly the methods used and the romanticising and glorification of the act has influenced many real live cases to occur. I agree with the writer that it is indeed a dilema whether to report more or less suicide news on the newspapers. There is the possibility of copycats but yet there seems to be a lack of awareness in the community about suicide. I find it terrifying that the rate of suicide cases have not steered down, instead remained high and increasing higher annually especially when there are many telephone helplines, counselling and support services. It is very true that the youth has to be more exposed to these issues as it helps them know better what drives a child to contemplate suicide. I find it very true that usual mourners at a wake ask how a person died but at a suicide wake aks why? Children need to understand that choosing death is not the only alternative method to be released from all stress or problem concerning, examinations, trouble at home or heart break between BGR. Indeed, raising their awareness through the media, new help avenues or others who have bounced out from more dire situations can testify and encourage others to keep living.